I am not sure that I have commented on your thread before but I do read it from time to time. I think it is great that both of you don't want a D. That is a great start. But like my situation, this seems half baked. I would refocus on you and get to place where you don't act confident but are confident. You need to let him go. Does this mean he can be around to help with the kids? yes. Does this mean no more sex? Yes. But your husband has not it rock bottom and maybe never will. Do you want to live the rest of your life in a M where you always fears that he will have another A? I know I don't.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed
