Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” Lao Tzu
You sound better, my friend. I'm so glad. You know you will still have bad moments, but, hopefully they will be shorter and less intense.
I agree that you didnt have closure. I also completely agree that you have to accept what is. Acceptance to me, is the golden ring.
It allows you to move forward and get to the good parts. The part where you know that nothing is permanent, everything changes. Where you can decide what you want and be who you are.
Acceptance allows us to move forward in a healthy way. We might want for things to be different in the future, but in the present moment we need to accept things as they are. That’s the way you can make your life flow smoothly, instead of roughly. To me acceptance is like protecting yourself with your own shield.
