I'm proud of the way I handled it, just found her reaction a little strange. She normally pushes back way more than that.
So, she may have performed a 180 on some of her old behaviors?
I'm sure it's tough with the hurt you have felt, especially as the trust is re-established. When I first read this, it seemed like she may have thought about what she said and realized that she was wrong for suggesting it. Then she carried on, noting a boundary.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
