It can be peaceful, just state the boundary is there and then STFU and normalise.
"W you know where My boundary is on this." Then walk away, no discussion or argument.
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And that's basically how it went. The only thing I added was that no spouse on the planet would think that going out to see OM would be acceptable.
She shut down after that, didn't talk to me for a few mminutes, and then we resumed our evening. I'm proud of the way I handled it, just found her reaction a little strange. She normally pushes back way more than that.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
