Sorry you had to go through that. I to have just confirmed my wife's affair. It's a mess and the pain almost unbearable. You will survive though. The positive you can take is that it makes detachment easier. I thought I was detached. Have only worked out now that I wasn't. Now I truly am. We have a long road ahead but we will heal with or without them
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on