Pink,

I'm not going to try to convince you of what you should do.

I will simply say that many marriages have gotten stronger after an affair.

I will also say that getting over the affair and the issues associated with it aren't easy to overcome but can be worth the effort.

For better is the easy part of the marriage vows.

For worse...that's the hard part.

And yes I can predict you saying that he broke his marriage vows...

Yup, not defending him, just saying you still have yours intact. : )


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet