I am new here but I just wanted to say my heart goes out to you, I read this and it sounds absolutely awful, I can't even imagine how terrible it must have been to come face to face with them. It sounds like you did the right thing driving away (and ignoring the calls). Take care of yourself.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.