I had a nice long weekend with my s13. I try and see how he's doing when I have him 1 on 1, but he doesn't speak much about anything other than sports or his video games.
I am good about staying away from snooping about W. And when I saw her last Friday night it was the 1st time I saw her in 6+ weeks. We also rarely speak on the phone, with son's schedule done thru texts. So when I put my hand on her back and she sprinted away, it was clear to me that nothing has changed in our no-contact separated marriage.
And I can report that the detachment is helping me. In the past, if I had a set-back like this, I would be hurt/frustrated and think about moving forward with the divorce, or just chucking the no-contact. But these feelings quickly past, and I continue to see patience right now as my best course of action.
