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First of all, hang in there. This IS gonna sukc for a while, and there really isn't anything that you can do about that aspect.

You are emotionally raw at the moment, and very little that anyone says or does, is going to make you feel better.

Be sure to rest, sleep, and eat healthy when you can choke down a few morsels.

This is, the best, worst place for you right now...

Secondly, I highly recommend that you read the DB/DR books, to find your bearings a bit.

Start off with this, until you can get your hands around it...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...nt=2&page=1

And lastly, for now...

Read this thread, and try to adhere to these 37 rules...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2250607#Post2250607

Others will be along shortly...

Hang in there Frank. In time, you will actually be thankful for this opportunity.

Peace