I am so sorry Sandi. 19 years is a long time, a life time actually.

I too am going through the process and it's been 19 years too.

I am very sad as I imagine you are too. However, this is not a reflection of us, just one part of us that took two people to create and destroy.

Don't beat yourself up, have faith in God, you will persevere.


Was made a better person by DB'ers