daring ... yeah I think you did just fine. I often scratch my head all caveman style when on one had they want to do their own thing but then get irate when they no longer control what we are doing with our money/lives etc. I have to bite my tongue often and not shout at W "Yanno if you did not go bat$hit crazy none of this would be an issue" .... alas .. it only makes things worse, took me months to learn that and even longer to do it consistently ... but yeah sometimes it seems you have to dig in and tell them the way it is.
