I did, I have told her in the past if she continued with him that I would not tolerate it. After it happened I stated that if that is what she wants then I am not stopping her. She states that he is only a friend and although my gut tells me otherwise, I want to believe she is honest. Too many things don't make sence in my head regarding it though...although it does not matter at this point.
She has looked into a furnished appartment. Doesn't want anything in the house and wants to split time with kids. Finances to be determined I imagine she wants to move out this weekend. I told her that I would like the kids to have time to process it and not tell them and have her leave in the same day. Our S b-day is also in a week. She said "how can we tell them and still sleep in the same bed while they know that I am leaving" I guess she has a point. They are going to be devistated.
She states that this is the only way that she will find clarity. I do not have much hope if she moves out. She continues to deny the OM and I guess it does not matter at this point. She knows who I am and how good we can be if she allows it. she states that the problem is not with me and that it is something that she needs to work through. She also states that she does not see us together in the future, does not like being intimate with me, and that we are not good together. Yea that is painful
I know, keep the road paved...keep the light on...don't do anything that will complicate the future...GAL...Detatch...will try guys.
She also wants a legal seperation agreement and I think we can hash it out ourselves and then have it stamped.
Starsky / Monza- what should I do?
W-43 H-41 M-19 T-21 Kids S-15 D-13 S-11 OM/EA/PA suspected 7/4/14 Talk of Seperation 7/5/14 Slept in same bed, held each other nightly until 2/1/15 W moved out 2/1/15 I am moving on
