UR and Job- thank you for the support and validation. He has always been avoidant with finance stuff ( cue IRS mess) and right now I don't have time for that chit!
So the fixer/pleaser in me did end up texting him that I apologize for coming across so angry ( seriously I think I was on fire like Hades in Hercules)! But- I also told him I have a lot on my plate right now and it's frustrating to have to chase him down and remind him about stuff. He responded apologizing for contributing to my stress and " hopes we can continue to solve issues in positive ways". I don't recall them being contentious before- I was actually more patient and understanding than I should of been and a lot of the time just took care of stuff. Must be that rewriting history BS.
Funny you mentioned the list Job- I actually did that but didn't give him a timeline. I like that idea- will add it about the toll stuff. ( and here's the kicker- he travels 2-3 days a week but works from home the other days. It's that he's not making time which is what irks the crud out of me).
He is so a man child and worse now than before!
S17 thought he was being ridiculous about the car. I told S I was still fine with him having it but if he felt that it generated too much drama between his dad and him I will look for an alternative. S still wants the car And I have to say- I was giggling a little inside seeing how frustrated he got when he realized he really has no say in that matter. Tough dookie! Must deal with the consequences of your decisions H!!
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
