My only concern is that the more I step back the more he walks all over me trying to get a reaction from me.
It's almost like he's testing me. I really can step back as long as he contributes financially. I've accepted that I won't know which job he's at when.
I just don't want to step back and it make him continuing to get out of hand further.
I'm not sure if that even makes sense. I just want him to know I have limitations and want respect. He is an adult and can do what he want but respect me in the process. Don't act like we're M when it's convenient for you. IE : M when bills need to be paid, not M when you don't want me involved in choices