Please do some serious GAL's and keep repeating until you feel solid and focused.
FOCUS on you and your kids!
Detach as much as you possibly can.
Post often as needed. Do not smack the IT of your XH:)
When you do speak to him, keep it about your kids ONLY, ignore anything else he says , especially about OW or new baby or his feelings!
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW