No darling your son is! Kids find the whole subject of creepy crawlies fascinating even if as adults we get annoyed about it!

Ins, I understand your reluctance to post, took me a long time too. Please realise that newcomers to the board don't have your experience, they may have age but are not as grounded as you are despite your youth. Post encouraging remarks or sympathy to other threads. RD500 was good at this although he seems to have disappeared on us! Just a simple remark or an observation from your own life. You have valuable insights to share Ins. You are indeed growing well. To a frightened and alone newcomer just a hello I am reading your post can be very powerful.

Start with those who have posted to your thread, they have empathy and connection with your sitch already, the wonderful Edz, the energetic Mozza, Thoughtful Jim, the guy with brass ones HerculePoirot some of the gals are fun too ggrass, toots, Lisa, Dawn. The vets, Wonka, Sandi and MrBond won't have threads but their posts are very powerful and by visiting others you will learn from them as life happens to mere mortals on DB.
Vanilla

Last edited by Vanilla; 01/20/15 01:49 PM.
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