Good job. She may continue to test you; stand firm!!
Oddly, she may actually draw COMFORT and SECURITY from your strong boundaries, Rzr. Much like children, who may wail and moan only to know that deep down their parents love them enough to be strict with them.
Take the short-term hit in favor of the potential long-term gain.
Starsky
I'm a little puzzled by her behavior. The silent treatment lasted about 10 minutes, then she was back to talking with me like it had never come up. She even curled up with me when we went to sleep. It's not like her to back down so quickly. When this subject came up a few weeks ago, it resulted in a nasty fight.
I'd like to think that she drew some security off my firm stand, but I'm suspicious enough of her to think that she may have just decided to try and get together with him behind my back.
I guess that's just a risk I have to take. It's not like I can control her.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
