Oh dear. So sorry to read this update, T0.

I have a hard time believing that someone who is depressed and so stressed out by financial woes would then go buy a car just to be provocative. It's not the behavior of a rational person. I agree this sounds increasingly like a mental health issue.

Hopefully your C will be able to offer some ideas for next steps. Above all, take care of T0!


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014