Yes, MrB, I have read DR. Some parts stayed with me more than others.

Vanilla, glad to see you found my new thread. I will certainly attempt to post more in the threads of others, but I often feel uncomfortable giving advice to those older than me in a subject I don't feel I'm doing very well at. Can you explain why this reminds you of that conversation? I'm not sure I follow. Am I one of the girls comparing bugs?


Me 23, Her 21
1S 2
M <1yr, T 7
WAW: She moved out 11/15/2014
She started D process 1/29/15