I'm not sure where you are in all this... You mentioned she crossed some boundaries about her hugging OM.. What was the consequence of her action? I'm not saying you should have done something, I'm just trying to clarify where you're at.

It is incredibly hard to detach and GAL when the crazy resides under the same roof. But it is still possible to detach.. And maybe even going dark. I'm sorry... There's no magically answer to make it better. I just want you to know that although you may not think so today but.. It is possible to be happy again.

Try and let go of the hope and expectations and focus on what you want your life to look like. What can you change today? It doesn't have to be something big.. Maybe it's something simple like updating your wardrobe.. Something,, anything..

Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11