5mo pregnant H wants divorce or to see other women

[25yearsmlc]

Can't believe I missed THIS post...

Last night he came home at 3 and admitted he d been having another affair. With a horl who turns oit to have Norderline.I stayed calm and showed no emotions while he cried.

Gee, how'd YOU stay so cold in the midst of HIS pain?

(Yes, I'm being snarky b/c I have to use humor as a coping mechanism.
but that's only b/c it ^^ helps me Not slap someone like your h, in the head, with a golf club.)




Sorry if it's "too soon" but when I read all ^^ this, it was literally the "nicest" thing I could think of to say!


This morning he hugged me seversl times and said he didnt know why he was throwing the best thing in his life away like this.

BUT HE IS, anyway...so there's no telling why, b/c all that matters now, is YOU and and your children.

Asked if i would be oorn to going to a sexuologist (as he feels im not adventurous enough). I said sure.

Wow, wow....UNLESS YOU have a serious problem with sex, which seems counter intuitive- given that you are in your 3rd pregnancy. Clearly, something is happening...

But I'm gonna make a crazy, wild stab in the dark - "guess" - that you have some TRUST issues that might make you a tad more cautious in the bedroom.

How about your husband being willing to see a minister/priest/pscyh for moral guidance

AND OR

any & all of your strongest male relatives, out behind a woodshed - for a 'talking' to" ? How about THAT?


But in the afternoon he said he was going dsncing w her tomorrow and maybe staying the night to say goodbye but 'nothing woukd happen'

Oh excuse me, I'm now officially screwing my head in the ceiling...


I dont think he s actually going to be there for the baby more than occasionally. He might as well pay his own bloody bills.

Needless to say...


So if that's the case, (you know, if HE is going to support HIMSELF, like a man and FATHER SHOULD,)

can you get HIS credit card and do some real shopping?

I myself have not been to Rio, or Madrid, & a host of other countries and I really would like a trip, so if your h is buying, do let me know.

From what I hear, this^^ is a treatment for HIS condition.

It may not help HIM, but I'm told those who feel "infected" by his ailments, feel a lot better after.

I know I would...