So sorry Mighty. I know you were hoping for a different outcome.

I too am a fixer. I was told once by a IC that I made the men in my life my project. I know it's because growing up I became a parent child because my Mother was an alcoholic and my Dad had a bad temper and couldn't cope. I felt responsible for everyone.

I have had to learn to be a friend to myself. To let others suffer the consequences of their own actions. Otherwise if we rescue them all the time we are not allowing them to grow and learn. I believe life brings the same things to us until we learn the lesson and change our behavior.

If you grow and move forward to becoming the best you. H will either catch up at some point or get left behind still riding his same old merry go round.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.