Thanks. Darn those threads were filled with stories that would make me a fortune in the soap opera writing business.
My hesitation lies in the fact that my H is a serial cheater, a LIAR and an addict(the new relationship "in love" feeling is his addiction)
I have been through sooooooooooo much, honestly right now this is great for the kids. What they have been through is horrible.
I have gotten much better advice from 25yrs, train, starsky, and a few others than I did my db coach. That is why I am posting here. My H isn't currently in an affair (although I am sure it could happen at any time but is it really an affair at this point??)
Maybe I do need more "mystery" more "GAL" and take care of me time.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
