OM is in town. In the midst of our R talk tonight, she broached the subject of seeing him again after hours, to get more clarity. Not that there were any plans, just a "what if." I responded with broaching the subject of separating our finances and me moving out.
She's not talking to me at the moment. Oh well.
This woman seems to think that because of the mistakes I made in our marriage that I should just stand by while she goes out with OM. Unbelievable.
Good job. She may continue to test you; stand firm!!
Oddly, she may actually draw COMFORT and SECURITY from your strong boundaries, Rzr. Much like children, who may wail and moan only to know that deep down their parents love them enough to be strict with them.
Take the short-term hit in favor of the potential long-term gain.
