You are insane gb - but so honest. You can't go wrong with being honest with yourself and sharing your truth with others.

I can relate to some of what you said.

My h was not my best ever but it was good. I do wish he was more aggressive in some ways but mostly I wish he had been more honest in the bedroom. It always felt like I had to guess what he was into and he couldn't say it. It was frustrating that I had to be the leader in sex games department.

I guess I thought this was a compromise I was making and I loved my h regardless. I thought no r is 10 stars in every department.

My h also had complaints that we weren't doing it enough. I didn't respect his feelings enough and justified that after having 2 kids doing it twice a month was nothing to complain about. I should have shown his feelings more respect


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13