Twin, my heart aches for you, but understand I would give anything to be where you're at right now.

I know I can positively, undoubtedly, identify with your anger feelings and not knowing what to do with them. I can say this much, I heard you say about 2-3 weeks ago you were not really wanting a divorce and sounds like he doesn't either. That's a fantastic place to start.

ILYBINILWY? This is such pop-psych garbage. No one is asking either of you to have particular feelings, you're just asking him to work on the marriage.

I have no idea if I have anything to offer you, Twin, but I see a ton of hope in that paragraph above.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3