I am very sorry to hear but also good to hear you set yourself a boundary regarding reconciliation and that you are not longer going to support her.
It's so hurtful to read, how the other person can change so much for the bad, in the meantime you become better, but you'd wish the other way around
Only time can teach a lesson. And it will. Not today, not in a year...but it will!
Stay strong and keep going. Keep loving!
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15