I am very sorry to hear but also good to hear you set yourself a boundary regarding reconciliation and that you are not longer going to support her.

It's so hurtful to read, how the other person can change so much for the bad, in the meantime you become better, but you'd wish the other way around smirk

Only time can teach a lesson. And it will. Not today, not in a year...but it will!

Stay strong and keep going. Keep loving!


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15