Hey, this must have been one of the toughest things for you since all of this happened. I think you did fine. Text messages and email are such a bad way to communicate as there's so many intangibles that just aren't there compared to conversation, but you had no other options.

As hard as it is, try not to mind read. I'm having the same trouble of tiptoeing the edge of 'business' and 'relationship.' But hey, you let her know how you feel about the whole thing, that's not bad at all.


Thinking about you tonight. Take a deep breath, a short pause and get back to doing what you have been. You've been a trooper through all of this. Best wishes

Last edited by MCS; 01/20/15 01:21 AM.
M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)