I am so sorry, Mighty. Have been following your sitch for inspiration and strength to help bolster me up. I think you mentioned that you feel things happen at certain times, just when you have gathered enough strength to deal with them, one by one. I feel the same way...as things have transpired, I've always stopped and thought 'there is no way I could have handled this X weeks/months ago -- not before today.' Somehow we always seem to have just enough to make it over the next hurdle. You'll make it over this one too. Now at least you can start to put things in order in your mind, and step back a bit, because it is clear he has quite a ways to go before HE can put things in order in HIS mind. By that time, you'll have clarity about what you really want, and as UR always says, you will be able to make decisions from a place of strength (and heck, you've already been there, so you already know what you need to do to get back there). Prayers for you today, Mighty. Stay strong.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
