She has harbored a lot of anger and resentment. I do believe the expectations she had were not met and she did grow tired of my anger toward life in general.
I don't know how my W will see or notice the changes I am making we never see each other.
I believe you are right. If she notices the change it will make her angry because it took her leaving me to make the changes. I know I should have made them long ago but I was so wrapped up in my problems and anger. She told me 2 years ago she needed things to change.
I know the changes are necessary regardless of the outcome.