Thank you so much raliced for your valuable insight. You are right of course, I am worried about OW becoming a well liked family member and taking my place, but I know H's family have to accept her for his sake.

It's just tough you know, when D20 has seen all the heartache and turmoil first hand and wants to meet her. But I understand her curiosity. I do hope she doesn't like her and no new friendship is formed. Mature huh?

You are so strong raliced, you've coped tremendously well throughout it all. Thanks so much for taking the time to help me.


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014