Originally Posted By: Complex
Originally Posted By: Lost!
If I were you I'll not discuss green card or citizenship with her anymore. She will use that as bargain chip to get what she want (divorce without consequences for her actions). Not saying your marriage will end but You can always get your permanent residency and citizenship with or without her. All you need is proof of the affair.


I'm Not sure of this at all. How is it relevant to the green card issue? It's not even a grounds for divorce in most states.

(Hey, I'm Just asking.)

Yes. I think I should not make a big deal out of it. But the topic wil come up. She will ask for sure what the status is soon. I'll just tell her I'm taking care of it and that she shouldn't worry!?


Complex, for God's sake, see a lawyer in your state, so you know these answers BEFORE you make a strategy for any of this^^...

Make sense?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
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