Oh, yeah, one other thing. I talked to the MC before W and kids got there. He said that I couldn't let my frustration and anger show in front of my W. I thought that I had been doing an okay job with that other than last week. I know that he was not too happy what I did last week, but I told him it feels like I've been a doormat, catering to whatever she says or having her shutdown if not. I said to him that I've accepted the situation for what it is right now and not expressing any feeling of hurt or betrayal was eating me up in side.
Then he said, He would guess that there may be a little hope for reconciliation if we establish a R with each other about the kids and the sitch with the OM fades out. He said that would probably be 2-3 years before it could get mended. Yikes.... I told him that I wasn't interested in W until she could make some serious changes in herself first. He agreed that was the best thing.
Since wife canceled us meeting with him together tomorrow, I asked if I could see him myself. So I'm going to do that.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
