It really doesn't make any difference, but a few of H's friends have told me they were all shocked that he left me for her. I have seen her and she is nothing special, but she must have something going for her to make H dramatically leave his family to be with her. He is with her constantly, he even takes her to events where its all guys and they are the only couple. Weird.
Anyway, I will just have to deal with this. I know if D20 doesn't mention anything to me, it is likely to mean she liked the OW.
After all his moaning about money last week, I offered to contribute towards the house. He said no! I couldn't believe it. He said lets just have a think about it and not do anything hasty.
Just don't know what's going on in that head of his.
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014