uR, actually, I feel like it is sucking the hope out if me. Like I need to run and take cover. It is totally contradictory to what he has been saying. I noticed things changed after obd (operation baby drop), and this comment opened my eyes- WIDE!

I don't even want to mess with that fire. We need to figure out a schedule, but whatever he decides to do is his problem.

I'm officially checking out.

S, if they go to bil or not, it does not matter to me. I was just responding to heather. I was trying to give the point of how un-close my kids are with them and how it's not a comfortable place for them and never has been.

Right now, I'm just laying everything out on the table. Taking a good look at the sitch- where it has gotten. This helps me assess. I'm pretty analytical in that sense. I have to put it in perspective. Title crazy as crazy. Then I can walk away knowing or having perspective as to what I am walking away from or detaching from. Otherwise I will continue to question and spin.

Lay it out. Take a look. Drop it like it's hot.

Done it before. Doing it again- just from a different place.