Got it. I feel better already. GAL full force. Staying busy.

That is crazy statistics. Makes me feel better. But actually their R HAS a foundation that they are friends for a long time and always like each other a lot but no one ever made a move.

But I don't know how that plays into it. It is just a work based friendship and the life in a R is a completely different ballpark.

The other thing is the love between me and my wife also had no foundation. And it never really built one. That is what we missed out on. Both our faults...we did not make an effort to truly built on our romantic love....call it "we were young, inexperienced"...


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15