"I want to clarify that I do not believe what I said on FB was vengeful or negative in any way, just an announcement that we are no longer together and thanking my friends and family for being there for me. "

It's not the message. It's that you pretty much aired out all of your dirty laundry to friends and family who didn't know what was going on. Regardless of what you said, they will be asking you what happened and if you don't tell them, they will assume that your W cheated on you or something else bad and see her in a negative light.

Do you think she would really want to go back to you when all of your friends and family believe she's bad? That's how she's going to feel.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER