Originally Posted By: Mozza
Originally Posted By: Mach1
Co-dependent no more
The journey from abandonment to healing

It's interesting that you recommend Co-dependent no more. Is there something in my sitch that makes you think we were co-dependent? On the surface, at least, we were very independent. We'd take separate holidays, would see friends separately, could take care of the kids alone for weeks on end, etc. In fact, it's this distance that create an atmosphere of "partnership" that made my W say that there was no love and couple anymore. She wanted more connection.


Well, I didn't say that you were...just that it was a good read...

So, how do YOU feel about it ?


Originally Posted By: Mozza

Mach1: I like that you started commenting on my sitch. You bring a new perspective at the right time, just as I'm moving the focus back to me. Can I ask you if there's something in my sitch that attracted you?



You answered your own question ... ^^^