WAH - gone almost 1 year, still so hard.

[stacey9]

Well I have no great GAL activities to report on, but my PMA has been fantastic this past week, got some jobs done around the house and a few other things that were needing done.

But have just had a bit of a set-back. D20 has been spending some time with her Dad over the last few weeks. He has asked if she would like to meet OW. She said yes. She said she wasn't sure whether to tell me or not. I'm glad she did, and I told her I wouldn't ask any questions about it, but if she wanted to tell me about it that is fine. She is curious about her.

I am gutted. I know many of you with younger children have already dealt with this, but this feels like another step towards total acceptance. S18 chose not to meet OW.

I was feeling better, and as Suckerpunch said, it can't be peaches and cream with H and OW all the time. I would never try and influence my daughter in any way, and I suspect the OW will be very nice and pleasant to her, and ask loads of questions and be genuinely interested in her.

I just don't think I'm ready for this.....