Hi Faith. The soap opera comment was from me, and I'm so sorry if I caused any hurt. I read it some time ago, and it has helped me with my sitch. There have certainly been times where, if I had responded to my H differently, we would have gone 'soap opera.'

I think all of our sitches have the potential to enter this territory, unless we get to a place where we are very balanced and centred - because many of our WAS's are all over the place, and may pull us with them if we allow it.

I think this is a great post from you, and that you have come a long way in a short period of time. Any time you have a wobble, this is a good post to go back to....x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus