Thank you Lost for your insight on the doctor/nurse R's. I mean it's obvious that Dr's are crazy busy and this is NOT a very desirable family life or R life. But I'm not in control of this. It seems like she likes him for a reason and they are long time friends...but how do you know how a R is going to be before it even starts? That's why I cannot give too much thought into this. It might be the love of her life, it might be a complete flop, or it might be a decent R that ends up in unhappiness AGAIN. After all it's a symptom, not a cause...that's what I learned.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15