I'm sure you're right and I know my STBXW well enough to know that from the moment she decided she had to move this stopped feeling like her house to her and she lost that basic security she needs.

I know logically I have no more or less chance of the outcome I want but it feels like my hope just died.

I don't want the situation of the last four months but this doesnt feel like it moves me toward my goal.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress