Card, you know what??.. I've only just realised that our sitch's have an almost identical timeline, we joined within a month or so of each other and the ages aren't far off either.. It's only taken this long haha!!..
Anyway, it seems like we are both getting to that same kind of a detached space and it feels good doesn't it??.. You said your move seemed to coincide with the end of OM R, and I have seen mine was when I found out about NBF.. It seems like OM's are a bit of a trigger haha!!..
Keep up the good work.. I look at people like yourself for my own inspiration!!..
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..