Sounds like you had a fantastic ski trip Card. How are you feeling these days?
Excellent! Honestly, I feel like myself for the first time in a long, long time. I forget if it was in DR or just vet advice here, but whenever I heard "become who you were when you met your spouse", I thought that didn't apply to me because I felt like I hadn't changed. I'm realizing now that I had sort of become a shell of myself. I was not always a MNG. WAW's aggressive personality made me shy away, and over time that really affected my personality. I'm not blaming her for that. It will take a lot of time and effort, but I feel like I'm going to get rid of the MNG crap but still be loving and kind.
Also, I sang for almost the entire 10 hr drive home today, and now my voice is hoarse. I don't know what came over me, but when I drove through, WV, I had to sing along to Country Roads. Not sure why, because I've never liked John Denver. At first I only knew the chorus. After I had sang it for the 15th time (probably not exaggerating), I knew the whole song lol!
I'm on cloud nine and that is WITH the speeding ticket I got at the WV/VA border lol
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23