Hang in there, bud. It's tough knowing exactly what to do in these sitchs. However, understand (I know) that the last thing on a WAS's mind is their spouse's feelings. It's stinks, I know. You've seen how my wife is treating my feelings and even the kids feelings. The WAS is living in their own bizarro world.
Look at the internship as forced detachment, it will also force W to live in reality for a few months. If she is still dependent on you now, it will hit her harder when she's away.
I agree with DB coach, it seems like the S is just that and she's unsure what she wants in life. She's trying to find herself. Let that help you realize that the S is not you, but someone's that's lost. As you know on my thread, this takes time and patience,
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
