Thanks for the post, it made me feel better too. I see the same thing with W, supposedly the R is over and the little I see, I see she is trying to re-establish contact as much as possible with him. I need to be patient and let this phase pass.
The post helped out my thoughts of whether she will get out of this that she's in and gave me a little more hope in my sitch. Not that she'll come back, but it helps me cross over the fact that I need to do everything possible to be angry or resentful.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)