Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #6

[HPoirot]

Hello sandi and SRD. Yes this post Limerence was very interesting. Helpful in understanding W's actions. Also very helpful in how I must stop shaming and guilting her.

I like the parallel to leaving a job. Right now she feels I hate her and I've been reinforcing that and increasing her resentment. She even said in our last R talk... "How would you feel if I just jumped back into our M and into your bed again?" Yes we've both shown enough resentment and ugliness and weakness to make that impossible. I have to be the one to change. This post was a very clear description of where I've been going wrong so far.

So I'm recommitting again to being as compassionate and respectful as I can to W this week.

And GAL.