Hi TO, I've been keeping up with your sitch & sorry you're having a tough time of it. I don't know much about piecing (would like to!) but I know people say it's tricky and it takes time.

It strikes me that it is still relatively early days in terms of piecing for you guys. I know I read somewhere - don't expect your H to be all sweetness and light if you reconcile. That may well take a while, and there may well be some grief (for want of a better word) at the end of the A relationship.

I can understand your frustration though - but rather than making big decisions at this early stage, maybe just take a bit of time out and do something nice with the kids or for yourself. I think the thing I really pick up from your recent posts is just how let down you feel by H. He cried and begged and then your hopes were raised, and now you feel they have been dashed. I understand that.

I don't have much useful to add - but just sending you my good wishes. Toots x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus