I can tell myself I can't make him happy but a lot of my frustration is that I'm trying. I genuinely want him to be happy. I want him to return to the man I knkw. But thay is all *i* wants and something he isn't capable of right now.
The crappy part is that he's happy (like most people) when things are going his way. I just hate that our family is punished so to say when things aren't goong his way which in turn makes him closed off and depressed. Then he doesn't want to do anything. Works all he time and then sits around the house. Doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything fun and on the chance he does he just sits around appearing miserable.
This is something g he has to work out. I really would like to bring it up in MC but I have to figure out the right way without hurting his feelings.
