I just feel like nothing about me makes H happy anymore. And yes me asking =stressing H out but he's been telling me for months he's taking care of it and he hasn't. I don't want to be afraid or feel that I can't bring things up because it *might* stress him out.
Hey T0- I'm sure some of your veteran advisors will be along soon to help out. I have read all of your threads (I felt yours had a similarly dramatic BD and separation to mine,so I've followed it and read up on it even though I came much later)
I know you know this and its just phrasing - but you know you can't "make him happy" right now? He's the only one who can decide to be happy, and he has to do the work to be so. Can he do that? I dunno - sometimes I think "yes" and sometimes "no" based on what you write. He sounds fairly youthful.
I guess right now the finances cloud everything else and I can only say what I would do in that situation which is to take my own steps to make the financial situation better and not count on him.
